"there was also rape scene and he decided it would be appropriate to ask me i liked going clubbing."

I fuckin' lol'd okay what the fuck. How does that even SEEM any sort of appropriate, oh my god.

Good luck on the job search and stuff, though. If I could vouch for your wonderfulness I definitely would send them a letter of recommendation! ♥

indian oppar was pretty bad with the social cues ;;

unnir if you wrote me a rec letter idk if i would ever want to part with it ;w;

in your own words, Fuq No Bro
i'm sorry for laughing so much the first time...and that i'm still laughing now

omg rude.

i told him point blank that i wasn't interested at all and didn't want to waste his or my time.

wow. i have never been able to do this, which is why i end up seemingly leading people on for ages when i have no interest in being in a relationship at all whatsoever :| a fucking plus.

also being an asshole as a profession is the dumps. there are enough of those at my university. i would like to grind my stiletto heel into their brains and remind them that one day they will trip up and the world won't be nearly so forgiving.

YOU'RE ON THE QUARTER SYSTEM TOO. now it all makes sense.

idk i also have never been in a relationship before because i usually don't like the guy and terminate it really early. IT'S A VICIOUS CYCLE.

there is this blonde girl that is so damn aggressive. she came up to the guy sitting next to me and demanded to know what was going on. i wanted to throw my soda at her in my raeg.

wtf tell her to cool her fucking tits. jesus i hate hypercompetitive people. i mean okay i get like that all the time but i keep my obsessions to myself, okay.

also that is a totally valid reason to not be in a relationship? idk i...honestly don't like the person i become when i date people. i don't like the expectation of having someone being affected by my life choices. i am not prepared for that investment yet. so i refuse to, on principle. i'm pretty honest and open about it too? but every boy seems to think that "this date will change everything" but it doesn't, it won't. i just have zero interest in dating anyone/being in a committed relationship.

ok cupid is awful omg ilit. it is like the train wreck game but with rl instead of fanfic erkjghdg\o/ also have you seen bride and prejudice? it is the bollywood version of pride and prejudice and I am picturing that Indian oppar as being a lot like mr. kholi and rolling on the floor. I know I shouldn't and I feel really bad that you had to go through that, but omg!!! also mad props to you for telling him to back the eff up.

alsooooooooooo business school eikrjghaerjkg I look forward to the day you hire me to be your cleaning lady ;~~~~~~~; YOU CAN ALSO APPLY TO PNC AND MOVE TO PITTSBURGH, THO :DDDDDDDbb no ok but really pittsburgh is a super cool place, it's just that there are not many cool people here (although in their defense I never meet anyone new, so there could actually be tons of awesome people I am not outgoing enough to find, SO)

butting into say that pittsburgh is totally cool! i went and visited my friend there over new year's 2009 and it was soooo fun. :3

SEE??? EVERYONE SHOULD MOVE TO PITTSBURGH AND WE CAN HAVE AWESOME FUNTIEMS AND NOT ALL BE #FOREVERALONE. I even have two cats so we can get a head start on that crazy cat lady thing :|

i can add my cat, too! we can just go to that place that makes crepes and eat crepes all the time and play with our cats and languish in unemployment!!!

i'm probably gonna stay on the west coast until a few years later. BUT IF I EVER TRANSFER TO PITTSBURGH YOU MUST SHOW M E AROUND

eh, it was a good experience in the end. i found out that i don't dig on indian guys lol.

(hoya lookalike oppar was a hater and didn't respond to my cute flirty message. fuq you)

this is like me and every guy i'm interested in on okc. fuck you, you don't deserve me anyway!!! >:|

chest hair is totally gross, i don't blame you at all for thinking so. and god DAMN this guy was trying hard. and clearly doesn't know how to read social cues. BACK DOWN, SIR. (also w t a f at that movie conversation omg.)

okc is such a crapshoot istg. i'm sorry you had such a crappy date. D:

and good luck with the job search! at least there are places that are recruiting, so it's not like you're just flinging your resume out into the wind and hoping it'll stick somewhere. xD YOU CAN DO ITTTTTT. ♥

honest to god it might as well be like i'm flinging my resume into a tornado.

i considered this to be an experiment. gotta know how dates go and what not to do :3 also gotta know how to tell these oppars to back down.

HOYA WHY YOU NO LOVE ME

I WILL GLADLY TAKE ANY AND ALL BLAMES

I am so with you on the chest hair thing omg I don't even mind pit hair, and leg hair can be tolerated if not in excess, BUT CHEST HAIR MAKES ME WANT TO SCREAM CRY DIE

Also he sounds so awkward lmao at least he wasn't a douche but... sometimes being bland and weird can be just as bad :|

I don't mind pit hair, or leg hair. Heavy facial hair and chest hair are just nightmares. DNW TO TOUCH

yeah, his problem was that he was pushy as fuq and just awk.

AT YOU

hdu chesthair is godly 8| at least on black forrest oppar ^0^

omg but i'm so sorry your date was such a douche, you did the right thing~
is okcupid sth like...a dating site for asians or something? XD /is stupid

and don't give up on jobs/networking okay? i wish you the best of luck! you will get your chance i'm sure :) fighting!

no chest hair is just gross. a regular nightmare for me. DNW TO BE RUBBING ON YOUR MAN CARPET.

it wasn't like he was a douche per say, he just didn't follow the social cues. if i give you a handshake to end a date, that means i am not interested in you. at all. lol okcupid is an online dating site. anybody can join, it's not asian specific.

lol man carpet XDDD

well guys with social ignorance are douches for me 8D
oic, thanks for edumacating me :}

oh god indian oppar sounded terrible. glad nothing worse happened. yeah, I've kind of given up on okcupid. the one guy who was messaging me still hasn't responded since our last message so I've given up lmao :(

but gluck with job searches and whatnot! I know how scary it is ;~~; you can do it, unnir! and maybe you'll find a nice businessman oppar at your job ;)

during a scene where a cat was strangled he leaned over and asked me if i liked pets. there was also rape scene and he decided it would be appropriate to ask me i liked going clubbing.

this is why im not marrying an indian like my grandpa wanted me to

good luck on the job searching! I feel bad for laughing at your date especially at the last bit about chest hair omg.